Tobie - Namibia/South Africa
Storybite 7
Nov 22, 2017
Tobie from Namibia, now studying at South Africa, shares his story about learning self-acceptance through the encounter with other colleagues and activists from the LGBTI community and how that experience opened his mind and heart to accept others: “it gave me a place (..) to accept myself and accept that what I feel and who I am was good enough.”
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