What are Storybites?

Moments of radical transformation. What is the difference between needing to be understood and actively trying to understand someone else? Storybites is a new Guestbook initiative that creates a participatory space for people who want to share stories that highlight a radical or surprising shift in their perspective through the encounter with another person. The Guestbook Project operates on the maxim, ‘if someone asks you who you are, you tell your story’. Overcoming violence and facilitating conflict resolution involve precisely this: expressing your own story and listening to the story of the other.

How to share your Storybite?

  1. Take a minute to think about your transformative moment and the story(bite) you want to share.

  2. Take out your phone and record (or ask a friend to record) your storybite. Your video should be between 1 and 2 minutes.

  3. Send your video to the Guestbook Project.

  4. We will share it with the world!

Storybite Videos

Pakistan Elders Speak About Hospitality

“For I had no one in the world, and that meant everyone in the world was mine.”

Story of an Iraqi Refugee

“If you go to the outside, if you go to the United States for a couple of years, maybe you will forget. And you will be coming back. We will miss you, but we will see you later. But if you die, no chance to see you later in time.”

Haya

“In the safe space I’m a part of, I can take a step back to reflect on myself, my background, and my position as a women with intersecting backgrounds.”

Narrating Hospitality in the Balkans

Students in Croatia share transformative moments of hospitality.

Hessam & Davoud

“Although I maybe can’t go back…I’ve always been very intrigued by my family’s identity as Persians who have left their country.”

Sarah

“You might be different, but perhaps you have something that I don’t have.”

Angelique

“It is important to have the willingness to listen to each other and the patience and tolerance for each other.”

Tobie

“It gave me a place (..) to accept myself and accept that what I feel and who I am was good enough.”

Caylin

“Instead of seeing it as a wall between two different groups, it’s really an opportunity for hospitality.”

Thembi

Thembi shares a story about facilitating conversation between black and white employees on the effects of Apartheid in South Africa.

Schuyler

“They were the person who forced me to see the effects of the church’s stance on the people who identify on the LGBTQ spectrum.”

Marion & Susan

“…she’s this person who has invited me in her life. As I journey with her, she is also ready to journey with me.”

Sarah

“…it really clued me in on the importance of listening and trying to root out the bigger problems…”

Peter

“…living with people who have been neglected, people who have suffered before, I have been able to accept myself…”